Service95 Book Club: Rewriting Male Tenderness
Join us for a life-affirming conversation with a panel of writers about masculinity, vulnerability and the quiet power of tenderness on the page.
An evening bringing together writers who have each found their own language for male interiority – for the parts of masculinity that rarely make it onto the page.
What does writing make possible that other forms can’t? What does it cost? And what does it open up?
This compassionate discussion considers what tenderness looks like when written by men, about men. It peers into how writers find language for softness, grief and intimacy and what fiction can unlock that other forms can’t.
Joining the discussion is writer and film-maker Caleb Azumah Nelson (Open Water and Small Worlds), author of Swimming in the Dark, Tomasz Jedrowski, and more to be announced.
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Dates & times
31 Oct 2026, 7.45pm
Run time
1 hour and 15 minutes (approx)
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from £17
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This event is held at the Purcell Room Southbank Centre
The Purcell Room is located in the Queen Elizabeth Hall, which is open from 90 minutes before events start until they finish. It’s closed at all other times.
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